Friday, December 6, 2024

Wintering

It's December, a month of transition from Autumn to Winter and one year to the next. The temperatures are dipping lower, reminding me to slow down and pause but there is so much to do during the holiday season. 

Lately, I wake up thinking about what needs to be accomplished. Autumn decorations need to be boxed for next year. The laundry room is full of wash. Cookies need to be baked for our Cookies With Santa event. This hardly sounds like a slow-down day!

 What happened to reconnecting with nature? It's a frigid day so I shall spend most of the day indoors, pausing between the to-dos. I check in during afternoons and again at night to reflect on my heartthoughts that help me relax.

With that in mind, I am delighted that Kim Haynes Johnson, host of this month's Spiritual Journey Thursday, offers wintering as our theme.  I spent several days pondering how to create a slow-down period with warm memories. Then I found inspirational quotes and samples of Katherine May's book, Wintering: the Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times .

Wintering brings about some of the most profound and insightful moments of our human experience and wisdom resides in those who have wintered. -Kathering May, Wintering: the Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times

As the winter winds blow in and snowstorms blanket many parts of the country. winter brings the opportunity to slow down and turn inward, beckoning us to come back to ourselves (Hilary Nicholls). Self-care during the winter is important. I hope to reach beyond my personal to-dos to give to others, especially my family. With an open mind and heart, I shall pass through the winter season with a mindful and positive attitude. Short pauses will help me reconnect with nature, faith, family, friends, and creativity.

Wintering Whispers

Looking out from my picture window
I see the beauty of a winter blue sky.
Almost bare trees sway in the distance.
I open the door to feel the cold. Brrr! 
Frosty December days are here. 
          Layers of clothing are needed.
Before checking off the to-do list
I pause, the holidays are nearing.
I breathe in crisp air and smile. Our 
family dinner after Grandmasitting
warms my heart. The memories last.
My little grandgirls were cuddled up,
with winter throws next to the fireplace.
Crumbs from the family dinner spread
Across the table. One quiet request was
Asked. Grandma, can I have a cookie? 
We were all present enjoying together-
Time as it should be. The onset of winter
Brings rest and renewal, transforming 
Thoughts beyond an ordinary day into
A shared experience with loved ones. 
Is it wintering that moves heartthoughts, 
Transforming my next spiritual journey?
draft ©CVarsalona, 2024 

I pause here to listen to an excerpt from the book, Wintering, by Katherine May. I hope you enjoy it also.


I close with another quote from Katherine May that inspires me to rethink next year's spiritual journey since this year has been a difficult one. 
“Wintering is the courage to stare down the worst parts of our experience and to commit to healing them the best we can.”
The healing part of life is what I am interested in now. Winter provides the time to plant seeds of renewal. I look forward to the soothing warmth of a nearby fireplace and the laughter of children enjoying the winter.

Wintering is every bit as beautiful and healing as the season itself.-Elizabeth Gilbert

 

Thank you to Kim Haynes Johnson for hosting the Spiritual Journey

and 

Carol Labuzzetta for hosting Poetry Friday. 

  Suppose you have not read Carol's fabulously designed Picture Perfect Poetry, An Anthology   of Ekphrastic Nature Poetry for Students.  You may be interested in this book. Carol gathered a beautiful collection of ekphrastic poems and designed it in color. This would make a lovely gift for the holidays. You can read a sample here.

Note: I send my apologies to Poetry Friday friends for not commenting last week. A dear friend passed away and we had to travel from Virginia to Long Island for the weekend. 

11 comments:

  1. I'm sorry to hear about your friend passing, Carol. It's hard to say goodbye! I just commented on Ruth's post and now here you are also writing and giving your thoughts, too, about Wintering. Serendipity shows up more than I can believe! Yesterday, our bookstore time for vetting new donations, brought that book, Wintering, in a box! I had briefly heard about it & snatched it up. Thanks for sharing some of her thoughts, and the thoughts in the video. I'm glad to read that you're busy but also taking care of yourself! That's a gift that is needed every day! Have a nice weekend!

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    1. Linda, how wonderful to find Wintering in the stack of donated books. I need to read more of the sample in between the to-dos. Thank you for your condolences. I wrote a couple of poems for the funeral to help my other friend, Judi's husband Jeff find his place in his new life. Self-care is a necessity these days. Peace to you.

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  2. First, my sympathies on the loss of your friend. Those tough losses remind us how precious life truly is, and. how each moment is to be treasured. I adore what you have done with this post - your reflection and thoughts, and the excerpt with May's voice reading the words just hit in such powerful ways that don't happen as I read words on a page. Your granddaughters and the time spent together, wiping up crumbs and snuggling with cookies ~ those are the most precious ones of all - - the simple, candid moments of real life. This is simply beautiful. Merry Christmas, and I wish you all the hygge feels of comfort and coziness.

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  3. Carol, I am so sorry for the loss of your friend.I find wintering an interesting concept. I am trying to provide self care as well as being present for my Dad. Family communication and relations have been hard as we both try to do the best for our Father. Thankfully, there are only two of us - my sister and I. Today, I tried to immerse myself in some holiday preparations which helped, but only slightly. Right now, I'm taking it one day at a time. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and your patience with my blog handling your comments. Take care.

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    1. Carol, thank you for your comment and support. Self-care is an important piece of our life puzzle. May you continue to bring your presence to nature, life, and your Dad. Have a wonderful holiday season with your family.

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  4. Carol, I appreciated listening to Katherine May's voice reading the excerpt. I also loved the idea that animals are more aware of the need to slowly replenish during the winter, unlike people! We don't always make time for it, but it sounds like you are going to this winter. Take care, and all the best this holiday season.

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  5. Carol, I am sorry for the loss of your friend. Living here in northeast PA, I feel that winter is God’s way of telling us we need to slow down, get our priorities in order, reflect on what we went through during the last three seasons, and map out a plan for the coming year. Even with the holiday hustle, those quiet snow-filled days give us the opportunity for reflection. Your poem reflects the beauty of winter with the joy of family. Bob

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    1. Bob, Winter is making its presence here in her playful way-20 degrees greeted my day. Your words are always inspirational in a reflective way. I look forward to reading your post on wintering. It's a beautiful way to stay in touch with you when I can't get to TWT. Happy Holiday Preparations to you and Kathy.

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  6. Your photos and your poem are gorgeous. I recommend the album Winter by George Winston as the soundtrack for your Wintering.

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  7. I like the idea of winter as renewal. Thanks for sharing your beautiful words and thoughts, Carol.

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  8. Carol, your wintering words add warmth to my own heart. I feel the strong pull to pause, reflect, to simply be -- surrounded by simple joys of table crumbs and grandkid giggles and soothing winterscapes. Blessings to you as you enter this wintering season!

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